And one of the worst things about having been in a relationship with a self-obsessed narcissist is that she can make MY journey about her. And that's not it at all.
This year has been about telling people no. Telling people that I care deeply about, that I can't be in a relationship with them because they don't give me any space, and I give them too much. I don't know how how to draw those boundaries yet. But when I do draw boundaries, somehow I become the evil one.
Sorry that I won't let everyone take advantage of me, or control me, anymore. I let my ex control me. And that has been a process to forgive myself for letting her do that to me.
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